Feng
Shui with Style - Working with Your Element Type When
you begin to study feng shui, you quickly realize the importance of the qualities
and characteristics of the five feng shui elements: wood, fire, earth, metal,
and water. This knowledge is essential to selecting appropriate colors, furnishings,
and accessories for your home. You can also use your understanding of the five
elements to develop a personalized feng shui strategy, based on the element that
is reflected most strongly in your own style of living. Metal
energy is clean, simple, and detail-oriented. Earth is lush, nurturing and comfortable.
Water is free-flowing, expressive, and intuitive. Wood is ambitious, forward-thinking,
and practical. Fire is passionate, excitable, and changeable.
Each of us has a unique combination of these five energies in our own personality,
usually with one element dominating. This is reflected in how we decorate and
use our homes. Some of us
developed a strong style preference at a very early age, which continues to serve
and suit us well. Others go through different phases as they progress through
life. You may once have covered anything that didn't move in chintz and ruffles,
but now find yourself appreciating the clarity of a more sparsely decorated space
- or vice versa. During an earlier phase you may have been happy with few possessions
and a minimalist lifestyle, only to find greater comfort now in the abundant colors
and textures of a more lavishly decorated home. The
element that is strongest in your personality right now will influence your current
decorating style, housekeeping habits, and your approach to feng shui. Your experience
will be more fun and more comfortable when you tailor your feng shui strategies
to your element style. Let's begin by seeing which of the five descriptions below
most closely describes you: - Neat
Freak (METAL): I hate clutter! My home is always immaculate, with everything tidy
and well-maintained, and I am very thoughtful about what I bring into my space.
- Pack Rat (EARTH):
I love my stuff, and can't get rid of anything. My house is so full of clutter
that when something is broken I can't even get to it to fix it.
- Free
Spirit (WATER): I'm too busy being me to clean up! If something's a mess, I just
toss a shawl over it. People say my home has lots of personality, and I am constantly
redecorating and moving things around.
- Go-Getter
(WOOD): Housekeeping? Home décor? Don't ask me; that's what the maid and decorator
are for. I just want things functional and practical, and I need a quiet place
to come home to at the end of a busy day.
- Whirlwind
(FIRE): Enough of the quiz already! I have a million things to do and a short
attention span-just tell me how to feng shui my house!
Many
people are a combination of styles, so it may be hard to choose just one answer.
If you're not sure, ask a few relatives or close friends for feedback; if you're
a true Neat Freak, you may think your house is a mess even when it's immaculate
by other people's standards! You
may also find that you live one style, but secretly crave another. As a dyed-in-the-wool
Free Spirit, for example, I regularly break the feng shui rules of good housekeeping
because I'm just too busy creating, writing, and living to keep things as clean
and organized as I would like them to be. But whenever I visit a Neat Freak's
home, my soul goes "ahhhhhh." The
trick is to be aware of what type of space you are really, truly most comfortable
in. As much as I like visiting pristine, zen-like spaces, I know that I don't
really want to live in one -- that if I did it would soon look just as lived-in
as my current home. Here
are some guidelines, based on the element-affinities described above, to help
you develop a personalized feng shui strategy: NEAT
FREAK - Your home is
so neat and tidy that it may be a little rigid, sterile, or monochromatic. You
tend to like the minimalist look, and are the most likely type to have all-white
decor. If your furniture has been in the same position for years, look for ways
to get chi moving without making more change than you'll feel comfortable with.
Live plants and flowers will
bring natural energy and color to your space. You may also need to add more personal
touches here and there. Find a place to display a few favorite photographs of
friends and family members, so there are some human images around you. Your
love for clean, simple spaces and attention to detail mean you are probably on
top of any maintenance or clutter issues, so focus on creating a good flow of
chi through your home, counteracting any negative influences, and activating your
power spots. Your clean and tranquil home is a wonderful environment for self-nurturing
methods such as meditation and qigong. PACKRAT
- Your biggest problem
is clutter! Closets are overflowing, you have three sets of everything, books
are stacked two deep on every shelf, you've saved every greeting card you ever
got, and all the flat surfaces in your home are piled with stuff. You might still
be able to breathe, but your space isn't getting any chi at all! Create
some breathing room in your home before you do anything else, or you'll just activate
all your clutter into even greater chaos. Chances are you've been feeling a little
stuck lately, so focus on getting rid of the old to make room for the new before
you do anything else. Once
you've cleared out enough stuff to get a good look at your house, make sure you've
got a good flow of chi through the space and address any maintenance issues before
making other feng shui changes. Your own chi will shift a lot as you clean out
your home, so be sure to practice some grounding and balancing techniques as you
go along. FREE SPIRIT
- You've been feng shui-ing
your space since the day you first got your own bedroom, even if you didn't know
to call it that. You are the
type most likely to want to work on everything at once, so be sure to define some
priorities before jumping into making changes. Your
enthusiasm for creative décor may lead you to overlook basic maintenance issues
and allow clutter to pile up. Take care of those first, then make sure that you
are applying your individuality to your power spots rather than scattering it
randomly about the place. Of
all the types, you are boldest in your use of color, so get out the brush and
roller and have some fun with feng shui color-theory. Make
sure that you haven't overlooked any negative influences that should be corrected,
and use your creativity to develop your own unique feng shui enhancements. You've
probably tried a lot of different personal renewal methods over the years, but
may not have kept up a consistent practice. Make a commitment to pay as much attention
to the inner you as you do to your surroundings. GO-GETTER
- Your house is probably
beautifully furnished and well maintained, but you may have delegated so many
of your home-maintenance chores that you no longer have a strong energetic attachment
to your space. Make sure you
don't delegate all your feng shui tasks, too, or they won't have much power behind
them. Find small, simple things you can do yourself and be sure to put some of
your own energy into enhancing your key power spots. If you arrange for someone
else to take care of other feng shui chores, it will be especially important to
perform the body-speech-mind empowerments on each one when the work is done. Throw
practicality out the window for a moment and choose one unique and unexpected
item for your home that expresses the inner you others so rarely see. Chances
are good you've been pushing yourself pretty hard for a long time, so be sure
to make time for balance and renewal. A candle-lit aromatherapy bath will help
you relax so you can enjoy your beautiful home. WHIRLWIND
- You're usually moving
too fast to pay much attention to your house, but once you get into feng shui
you'll want to get it all done in one afternoon. Do
some planning before you begin, or you'll jump from one unnecessary embellishment
to another without getting to the important stuff before you're distracted by
the next exciting idea. You want to start with the wind chimes and water fountains
because they look like the most fun, but if you skip over locating your personal
power spots you won't know where to place them. And leaving the household maintenance
tasks for later could sabotage your other efforts. You'll
benefit from the discipline of empowering your changes with a daily ritual-it's
an essential part of the process, and the thing you're most likely to skip! Promise
yourself a massage when you're done, and splurge on a big bouquet of flowers as
a centerpiece for your home, so you remember to stop and smell the roses from
time to time. Copyright
© 2002 by Stephanie Roberts About
The Author
Stephanie
Roberts is a feng shui consultant in Maui, Hawaii, and the author of the best-selling
Fast Feng Shui: 9 Simple Principles for Transforming Your Life by Energizing Your
Home (rated 5-stars by Amazon.com readers) from which this article is adapted.
To find out how you can use contemporary Western feng shui to help you achieve
greater success and happiness in your life, please visit the Fast Feng Shui website.
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