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MegaTraits: 12 Traits of Successful People

Book Summary

Top achievers usually share key traits, says an expert who interviewed 1,000 of America's most successful people. Here are some of the characteristics they tend to have in common according to Doris Lee McCoy, Ph.D., author of MegaTraits: 12 Traits of Successful People.

  1. Successful people enjoy their work. "These people are having the time of their lives. They work with a total involvement that seems to shut out everything else," said McCoy.

  2. They have a positive attitude and plenty of confidence. "The successful never seem to doubt that they will achieve," she said. "And when they do, it contributes even more strongly to their self-esteem."

  3. They use negative experiences to discover their strengths. For example, TV producer Norman Lear grew up with parents who were always screaming at each other, but he learned to find humor in the situation—and then used it to develop All in the Family.

  4. They're decisive, disciplined goal setters. Most achievers have a clear idea what they want out of life, and they take the shortest route to go after it.

  5. They have integrity and help others succeed. Karl Eller, chairman of Circle K Store told McCoy, "With any deal, I've been careful that I was fair to the other side, so both parties were happy. " That fairness is an integral part of success.

© 1994 Career Life Institute

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Homeguide (Humguide Revisited)

In Santa Rosa (California) the on-ramps to Hwy. 101 all say: South, San Francisco; North, Eureka. For the two years that I lived in the (SF) Bay area all I knew of Eureka was "North."

Several months after I began renting a condo in Rohnert Park I learned that the homeowners association was in litigation with the developer over construction problems. Last year the homeowners won their suit and that meant the whole place would be rebuilt-windows, doors, decks, heating systems, insulation, roofing tiles, siding-all to be replaced while the units remained occupied. As a self-employed graphic designer with a home computer studio (not to mention three pets) there was no way I could continue to live and work in what was rapidly becoming a construction zone.

Our short time in the Bay area followed three years in a home on the coast of Maine and I longed to have a house again. With Bay area prices sky high it seemed impossible but I couldn't help thinking there must be some place in California where regular folks can own a home. Suddenly those freeway signs seemed to take on new meaning.

I logged onto the Internet and did a search for Eureka, which lead me to the Humguide web site. Hours passed as the community came to life. There were natural food stores, movie theaters, computer and ISP services, real estate and climate information, churches and schools, organizations, all those things that make a place unique.

That day I contacted a real estate agent via e-mail and he assured me home ownership on the North Coast was within my reach. The next week I drove up to meet with him and spent several hours driving around to get the lay of the land. Two weeks later I returned to look at 10 very different houses he selected to give me a sense of what I could afford. The very last one was MY house. I made an offer that night, it was accepted the following day, and within a month we were living in our new home.

Without the Internet I'm not sure I would have followed through on Eureka. Being able to investigate the things I cared about from the comfort of home made the decision to drive up worthwhile. I was coming to see a place I already felt good about and had enough information to know what I was doing. Humguide is growing like crazy and continues to be my first place to look for local resources. We've just celebrated our first anniversary here in Eureka and I can't imagine a more beautiful home.

—————–About the Author————————————–
Su Wilson (sudonym@saber.net) is an immigrant to Humboldt County who runs Digital Production, a Macintosh-based typography service. With clients on both coasts, she depends on technology (and the folks at FedEx!) to maintain a successful business nestled among the redwoods.

Feng Shui: The Power of Placement

Most Westerners are intimidated by Eastern philosophies such as Feng Shui, the ancient art of placement. The first challenge is the pronunciation–Fung Schway.

Literally translated, Feng Shui is wind and water, but the phrase has evolved to embrace design, with psychological ramifications. The primary idea is that the gentle, uncomplicated flow of energy (known as "chi") through your home or office can enhance your life and/or business. You don't have to believe in it–it just is.

Feng Shui holds the promise of everything anyone could possibly want: happy family, good marriage, healthy and long life, successful career, wealth, and good luck. In its full scope Feng Shui shows us how to position ourselves in the universe in a more effective way.

Francine Tuft Peterson (who was interviewed for this article) is a Sacred Place Practitioner of Feng Shui. She used it in 1992 when she remodeled her Kneeland, California home. Francine began her studies with Carol Bridges, author of "A Soul in Place", and decided to continue this venerable art through study with Carol and Grand Master Lyn Wun in the San Francisco Bay area.She practices the Tantric Black Hat form of Feng Shui.

Feng Shui evolved 5,000 years ago in China and was an orally transmitted art form; only recently has it been documented in book form. And there are three types of Feng Shui: the Black Hat, the Compass, and the Pyramid.

The basic premise of Feng Shui is that people are affected for good or ill by their surroundings, and that the layout and orientation of workplaces and homes has a definite affect on people. The intent of Feng Shui is to change and harmonize one's environment–cosmic currents known as ch'i (cosmic breath, human energy) to improve fortunes. In practice, Feng Shui is something between a science and art.

Can Feng Shui help you improve your business environment? Yes. Just as it is important to have positive energy flow in your home, it is equally important to have such energy flowing in your workplace. The simple placement of your desk is important. It is recommended that your desk face out from a wall, which acts as a protector, while still allowing for a view out the window. If your work space is small and you can't move your desk, you might place a mirror to reflect your energy and allow you to relax, knowing that no one can enter your space and startle you.

An important aspect of Feng Shui is removing the clutter that invades our lives on a daily basis. Americans bring in four times the amount of clutter than they get rid of. The intention is simple — by clearing the home and workplace of clutter, you will feel blessed and better able to handle the job at hand.

While Feng Shui is an ancient art, it can be adapted to include modern day concerns about the placement of high tech equipment, like the computer. Feng shui would recommend the computer be positioned so that when you are working on it, the stress can flow right out the door and out of your life forever. That would really be good Feng Shui.

By Gayle Murray

Things We Can Learn From Dogs

  • Never pass up the opportunity to go for a joyride.

  • Allow the experience of fresh air and the wind in your face to be pure ecstasy.

  • When loved ones come home, always run to greet them.

  • When it's in your best interest, practice obedience.

  • Let others know when they've invaded your territory.

  • Take naps and stretch before rising.

  • Run, romp and play daily.

  • Eat with gusto and enthusiasm. Stop when you've had enough.

  • Be loyal.

  • Never pretend to be something you're not.

  • If what you want lies buried, dig until you find it.

  • When someone is having a bad day, be silent, sit close by and nuzzle them gently.

  • Thrive on attention and let people touch you.

  • Avoid biting when a simple growl will do.

  • On warm days, stop to lie on your back on the grass.

  • On hot days, drink lots of water and lie under a shady tree.

  • When you're happy, dance around and wag your entire body.

  • No matter how often you're scolded, don't buy into the guilt thing and pout…run right back and make friends.

  • Delight in the simple joy of a long walk.


Contributed by Lesley Craig, Accent on Service