5 Ways to Stay in Touch with Your Extended Network

When it comes to thinking about staying connected with your extended network, especially if you have a large one, it can almost be as daunting as, say, public speaking for a lot of people. But, it can be broken down into manageable steps. The most important thing with networking is that you stay in touch with those you connect with and you make every effort to keep a relationship going – even if you don’t “need” something at the moment.

Here are our five best tips for continued networking success.

1) Pass Along Articles of Interest to Your Contacts

One great way to stay in touch is to pass along anything of interest to your contacts. You want to continually demonstrate that you’re not only passionate about your industry (and follow it regularly), but also that you are genuinely interested in your contact’s best interest. It never hurts to reach out to someone you know and say, “Hi, John, I came across this article and thought of you. Perhaps you’d find the statistic on the growing demographics of 18- to 24-year-olds interesting for your research. I hope you’re well. All my best, Paul.”

2) Keep Your Network Posted of Your Updates

We recommend that you touch base with your contacts at least twice a year. A year can be quite a bit of time, and a lot can happen. If you are hired for a position, pick up a new internship, move to a new city or start a new blog, these are all reasons to update your network on what’s happening in your life. It’s also important that you use these opportunities to thank those that have helped you become who you are or get you to where you are today.

3) Remember Special Occasions

This can be a hard one. In a perfect world, we would all remember everyone’s birthdays and important events, but unfortunately, real life can get in the way of that. If there are certain members of your network who are your friends on Facebook, make it a daily habit to look at the “Birthdays” reminder to see if there’s anyone you should reach out to. And this doesn’t mean you should leave a generic “Happy Birthday” on someone’s wall; rather take the time to type out an e-mail and let the person know you’re thinking of them. It doesn’t take a lot of additional effort, and it’s an easy way to stand out from the “Facebook wall clutter.” In addition, keep an eye on big events announced by your contacts. If you want to get into public relations and you see that your friend launched a new campaign, send them a congratulatory note.

4) Create Google Alerts for Your Contacts and/or Their Businesses

One great way to keep tabs on a contact or his or her company is by creating a Google Alert. It’s free and takes less than a minute, and the service can send you valuable information on a colleague that you might have been too busy to notice. Then, when you see big news about someone or his or her company, take a minute to send an e-mail and follow up. If you’re not sure how to set up a Google Alert, check out our recent post on the CareerSparx blog, “Your Dream Employer? Do More Than Google Them.”

5) Follow Them on Facebook/Twitter/LinkedIn

Again, the idea is to stay connected with your contacts and what’s going on in their lives. If you see that a birthday is coming up or something important just happened, make note of what you see on your social media accounts and follow up via a personalized e-mail. Another tactic is to hit “like” if they post something produced by their company on a Facebook profile, or retweet a Twitter update for a big project of theirs. They will appreciate the support, and you will achieve your goal of staying connected and on their radar.

By following these five easy tips, you will be able to stay better connected to your network. And as you’ll see, it really isn’t as hard or as overwhelming as it seems. Best of luck.


Guest Expert:

Mario Schulzke is the creator of CareerSparx, an online course that helps recent college graduates begin their careers. For more information, download their free 61-page guide on how to start your career or check out the CareerSparx blog.

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The Lemonade Stand Principle

I wonder if I was born an entrepreneur.  Maybe I just learned, at an early age, that it was more fun to have money than not to have money.

My earliest recollection of my ability to earn money was at age 6, when I sold flowers which I took out of the nearby Lutheran Church garbage bin. 

Faithfully on Mondays, the church secretary would put the flowers in the bin; and faithfully after school (first grade), I would take the flowers out, tear out the bad spots and sell them.  I would go along the neighborhood streets, door-to-door, peddling my flowers minus the bad spots.  I was successful at it.  People would give me coins for my little bunches of flowers tied by a red string and when I would get to my last bouquet, I’d knock on the door of the home where the Catholic nuns lived.  A very warm and loving sister would give me a small picture of Jesus, in lieu of coins, for my flowers.  I did this every Monday like clockwork. 

Later on, after selling all of my flowers I took my accumulated pictures of Jesus and gave them to some to the old folks at the nursing home next door to the church.

Somehow, at an early age, I had an “eye” for what could be special to someone else for which I could be paid.  I must also have been undaunted, creative, imaginative and have had a measure of freedom from my parents.  I am certain, though, that I tremendously enjoyed this.  I made special friends. 

Whenever the carnival would come to town, I’d go to the “penny pitch” and return home with enough ash trays, glasses, bowls and plates to set up shop.  With my card table placed in front of the house, right alongside the sidewalk, I’d sell my wares for ten cents each.  I made a profit and I always sold out!

Then I really got into business with my lemonade stand, which I would faithfully set up every Saturday morning and keep it up until 2p.m.  At age 6, I was selling lemonade at five cents a glass.  I remember making my table beautiful with a tablecloth (I also ironed at a young age) with the finishing touch of red and orange geraniums in a green Coke bottle.

Kids came, so did heir mothers.  Even the scary old woman who lived in the proverbial darkened mysterious house down the street sent a note, via the passing mailman, that she wanted me to bring her a cup of lemonade.  So I did and for my efforts she gave me twice the amount – 10 cents.  That was an interesting lesson: I learned about going that “extra mile”.

I then expanded to include red Kool-Aid for 3 cents a glass because it was cheaper to make and I cheated a little on the sugar.  The old woman gave me a 20 pound bag of sugar she no longer used and people liked my Kool-Aid.  Later when lemons got costly, I added different flavors of Kool-Aid, even putting some dry Kool-Aid powder in small envelopes for 2 cents.  Kids could buy it, pour it out onto their hands and lick the dry and sour powder.  As summer came on I included frozen Kool-Aid ice cubes for one penny each.  By then I was 8 years of age.

Some days were filled with many trips to the house to get more cold ice water of Kool-Aid ice cubes; other days I went to and from the house because I drank more than I sold!  I stayed with this venture for three summers and most Saturdays during school.

I must confess, though, that my Mom put a halt to my entrepreneurial spirit when I charged 5 cents for neighbor kids to wiggle the stiff body of my dead cat Rusty who was on the porch in a box waiting to be picked up by the Humane society!

As I look back, I was in Lemonade Stand Training School, for I learned some lessons that are with me still.  I learned:

  • I, independently, could make something happen.
  • I had earning power.
  • To use and sell products that I loved.
  • I could sell things for money or by trading.
  • How to negotiate (negotiate means that both partied are satisfied with the deal).
  • How to be generous.  (I would give someone a whole glass of lemonade so they could taste it.  Most people would, in turn, buy more.  I also gave many free glasses to my buddies.)
  • To be consistent.
  • To have completed transactions.

The idea that I learned from my friend Leonard Orr-to have many sources of income-is a smart one and can liberate you from the dependency created by one source of income and the tremendous fear of having it taken away.  It can be easy when you relax your mind, become inventive, move from the idea of “selling” to “offering” and let go of attachment to “making the deal”.  You can be employed full-time and get involved with products or trade and “do it on the side”.

YOU CAN SELL IDEAS.  HSU and CR (local colleges) sell ideas.  If you have ever paid tuition, you have purchased ideas.  You can sell ideas by giving a class, workshop, a seminar.  You can be a consultant if you have something to advise or teach.

YOU CAN SELL PRODUCTS OR SERVICES.  There are Avon ladies and Mary Kay consultants; vendors at the Farmer’s Market and North Country Faire; there are sidewalk sales and yard sales and garage sales; there are parties to show beautiful and unusual baskets, Tupperware and intimate apparel; there are Sunrider and Blue Green Algae to take for inner health and cleansing; there’s Toby across from Arcata City Hall selling flowers; and Don in the Arcata Plaza selling hot dogs and sausages. 

He is a great entrepreneur.  He expanded his business as he saw what people wanted: coffee, tea, hot chocolate and tofu hot dogs.  He will even give you a shoe shine! There is no end to what can be available for you.  Just select a service or product for which someone will be willing to pay you. 

The workplace in 21st century will be a different configuration than we’ve known in the past.  Our mentality of largeness seems to be turning around to more simple form.  Did you know that home-based business comprises more than 50% of all new businesses in the U.S. and 75% of the new businesses in Canada?  The rise in mail-order catalogues and multilevel marketing of products is testimony that people want to buy either at home or in a more personal manner. 

The workplace in 21st century is also going to be one of the multi-careers and simultaneous careers.  If you are able to change with the changes this can be an exciting time in making money to take care of your needs.  Leonard Orr says that: we should stay with a career or product for at least 5 years or until we have become successful with that career or product so that we create patterns of success rather than failure.

So, I’ve created what I will call the “Lemonade Stand Theory” as a way to expand your income.  If you think about it you have probably done it.  For fun, jot down all of the jobs that you have ever had- all of the things you have ever sold.  Then write down all of the things you have done without pay but that you could be paid for.  You may be reminded of your capabilities and experience. 

Naturally, you must have the “glue” that holds it all together.  I think that is made up of personal energy, inspiration, self-esteem and the willingness to show up or have you or your product out where people will know about it, where they live or shop or hang out. Display it or have it available, or you be available and don’t take yourself too seriously.
     
Susan Yashoda Deschenes teaches classes in clientele building and in relaxation.  She lives in Arcata and drinks lemonade to this day.

(c) 2005 Susan Yashoda Deschenes

Building Lasting Relationships

What an amazing weekend!  Wow is about all I can say!  If you are not taking advantage of the training and networking opportunities that come your way, you are missing out–big time.

During this past weekend I attended 2 workshop/events in Los Angeles.  This required me to drive close to 1300 miles, leaving from my 57 degree coastal home all the way down through the 114 degree desert.  But it was worth every moment!!

The content at “How to Sell When No One is Buying” (based on the book of the same name) was first class – including information about keeping your website and information on the technological cutting edge with Dr.Rachna Jain (@rachnajain on twitter) and how your Body Language can hurt or help you with Janine Driver (@LyinTamer).  And that’s AFTER the solid information Dave Lakhani (@DaveLakhani) shared about how to get to and stay at the top of your selling game.

I am a member of Dave’s 100 Friends, a group he’s put together to help  provide training and assistance to some of the hardest hit areas in the U.S.    Dave’s Kick Start America program will be going live within the next 90 days.  You can find out more about Dave’s program by clicking on the link.

By the way, don’t fool yourself – every one of us sells – every single day. We just call it something different, but we’re continually selling ourselves, our ideas, beliefs and point of view.

For me, additional value came in the form of strengthening of existing relationships and the forging of new ones. I was fortunate to meet in person several people I follow online on Twitter, and to make new friendships while I was there.

I was able to further a few ideas I have by setting up Joint Ventures, partnerships, agreements.  I provided testimonials for a couple of my business associates and received tips and testimonials that support the work I do also.

Perhaps more important to me, I had the honor to be accepted as an apprentice to Janine Driver, the NBC Today Show’s Body Language Expert.

I will be working with Janine over the next 12 months, becoming trained by her and her personal mentors.  Not only will I learn valuable business and personal skills by becoming a Body Language Expert, I’ll end up being one of her trainers at her Body Language Institute.

Now if you haven’t seen Janine, you’ve really missed out! She is funny, intense, extremely smart and infinitely cute. She worked with the Justice Department’s ATF (Alcohol, Tobacco and Firearms), training investigators and tracking armed skinheads. She retired a few years ago to do her “own thing” and has never looked back.  Here’s a video that will give you an idea of what she’s like:


You can find out more about Janine on her website, and if you’re lucky, you can see Janine live on the Today Show this Thursday.

Oh, and I haven’t even said anything about Joel Bauers Passion2Profit weekend, which was totally AMAZING in terms of the value received for the price paid!  But you’ll start seeing the results of that one over the next few months.

So, the key is to pay attention to what is being offered in your niche or specialty area, and to make sure you continue to develop your expertise and relationships by attending events that give you an advantage.

You will be amazed by how much more quickly you manifest your results when you focus your attention on building relationships.

The Dark Bailout

Everyone has an opinion about the bailout – was it enough, was it too much?  Was it necessary?  Is this the Land of the Free or the Home of the Secure?  Should the government even be in the business of bailing out failures?  Will we be better off or worse off?  What can we individually and as a society learn from this?

While doing some research the other day I came across what I consider to be a very creative video that is at the same time funny and a little scary.   It is definitely opportunistic – cleverly expressing one person’s point of view about a timely issue.

If you’ve been following me for any length of time, you know I value creativity very highly.  I think it can be one of the most important skills we could ever develop.  Most creative ideas grow out of a need to find something new, or looked at in a different light, out of a frustration with the way things are.  For this reason, honing your own creativity even a little bit can help it develop into an excellent resource that could end up becoming the equivalent of having your own bailout when times get rough.

Looking at the way things are, and giving your current reality just a little twist, can result in something new that is phenomenally brilliant, usefully effective, or simply more fun.  I put this video in all of those categories.

In any case, it is definitely creative!  And so, for your entertainment, I offer you….The Dark Bailout

Warmly,

Katie